Seeking answers and BeingMe, no sadly the cleaning lady didnt press charges, I sure wish she had of done, I dont think this is the last of it, the cleaning lady is quite a feisty type and so is her mum, way back when the ex married his wifey this ladies mum was best friends with wifey so much so that she was matron of honor, they fell out with this ladies mum due to the fact that lady took it on board to clean for his old aunt. there as been so much mess and upset with a lot more people than me and son, its so unbelievable how many people have turned against ex because of his wifey and also his behaviour. I believe that the ladys mum will be having her say also when she next bumps into the flumps. lol, what a show, but moreso how embarassing to have your dirty cheating theiving ways broadcast across a busy public area, not good me thinks I am sure I would of died of embarassment. but ex and wifey dont seem to feel embarassment nor guilt or shame, but thats them, so pleased I am out of it all xxxxxxxxxxxxx