I don't mean to hijack this thread but, I think mj144 would also be asking this same question. MrBond, somewhere we have probably already been told this, but how do we slow down or stop this momentum of the WAS?

As for seeking legal counsel, I have not had any either. What you are saying makes sense to me. I don't think the WAS should know about it though. It believe it would set the wheels in motion for my wife, if it hasn't happened already.

H-40 W-38
Together-20
Married-12
boy-7 girl-3
bomb-9/17/10
No papers
live together
No affair