We have been sleeping in the same bed. Last night when he was angry about the car he asked which one of us is moving out of the bedroom. I asked if he really meant that, he shrugged. Typical behavior for him, WAS or not.

I went to bed around 1 am last night. Barely slept. He tossed and turned. At 2:30 he got up, grabbed his laptop sitting by the bed and went upstairs to another room. He either couldn't sleep (he's had bags under his eyes for 3 days) because maybe, just maybe, his conscience is keeping him awake or he's just mad and punishing me by throwing a tantrum and stomping off to another room (common behavior for him). Either way, not happy that we might not be in the same bed anymore.

I'm not going to respond to it at all. No questions, no comments. 180 for me.


Me - 38, 2nd M, no living children, 1 forever 6 yr old boy
H - 44, 3rd M, twins 16

Dating 4/07
M 10/08
Bomb #1 12/10
Bomb #2 1/11
Bomb #3 12/11