Hope, my H said we had nothing in common anymore, that we should not have married and that he would never marry again. When I told the db coach she said, "They all say that." I remember asking, "Really?" Later on this site I realised it is script. They all seem to say the same things.
My H has also told me so many times that I've lost count that he never wants to speak to me again. We have not reconciled but he has certainly spoken to me plenty after threatening not to.
