well just an update as to the news I have been told. old aunt isnt very well, the lady doing her cleaning for her bumped into the ex and being courteous just mentioned to him that his aunt wasnt very well, his reply "your the f*********g cleaner you f*********g look after her, shocked at this the lady then blarted out to him that he should be ashamed of himself and the fact that him and his wife took all old aunts money and even the money for his own fathers funeral and never paid any of it back, but yet he couldnt care less if she is fit and well or if she has anything to eat and drink. at this the ex threw a drink in the ladys face, uptipped the table and knocked her off her seat. I am in total shock that the ex is like this, if anything at all he was a total mouse when he was with me, he would scarper at the first sign of any trouble, he really has changed and changed for the worse by the sounds of things, he realy is screwed up, what a way to be, what a lovely caring gentle and lovely man as been changed into is beyond me, anyhow not my business I havent contributed to the recent happenings. just an update to let you peeps know how they really do become the opposite of what they were like pre mlc xxxxxxxxxxxxx