Deju vu, but new to the online forum...round 2

[habitacker]

I have been sitting here staring at your last post for about 15 minutes now. I want to say something, but I don't know what. The reason why? I feel the same way.

I get frustrated when I am told things that seem to be preparing me for divorce. It makes you feel like everyone knows something you don't. I want to stay positive and have faith. I understand the reasons for GAL and detaching, but sometimes a lot of people say this is the thing to do so when it doesn't work out you will be ok. Sorry, that doesn't work for me. If it doesn't work out, then, I will deal with the divorced me.

I am not saying I am not working on the new me now. That I believe has to be done, and will make me a better person whatever happens. Working on myself so I am prepared for divorce if it happens makes me feel like I have given up.

I hope nobody tears me up to bad about this. I do understand that many do not mean for it to come off sounding like this, but it does sometimes. It really brings me down.

I need something positive just as bad as you at the moment. I did see something positive in the post by MrBond if you look real hard. MAYBE SOMEONE UP THERE DOESN'T WANT YOU TO LEAVE. I know that might not seem like much, but I will take whatever I can get.