He knows the door is open and you care - you told him that in the letter. No need to reassure him.
You know you peeked his interested when he questioned you about the fair - moving on without him. That worked. Do more! And it's good for you, too.
Now, throw that advice back in my face please! lol I cannot see or think straight in my own sitch right now.
What were you saying about dating sites? Is your H active? Mine signed up, wasn't active at my last check. Last time I hacked his e-mail and phone didn't find any proof of affair and I know where he is at all times (only because he works from home).
If your H is on a dating site and says he wants the divorce and is curious about what you're doing and hasn't given you any contact... have you thought about posting your own dating profile just so he'd see it? *THOUGHT* here... not advising you to that!!!! Get advice from the others with more experience, I don't want to give you bad advice. What does everyone else think? If it's a complete 180 for her, if she goes through here first on what she posts before she posts it and does NOT respond to other guys? May be a horrible idea... don't take my suggestion unless others think it's ok. I probably shouldn't even suggest it without more info. I know in my case, it will not work - my H would take it as a pass for him to move on.
Me - 38, 2nd M, no living children, 1 forever 6 yr old boy H - 44, 3rd M, twins 16
Dating 4/07 M 10/08 Bomb #1 12/10 Bomb #2 1/11 Bomb #3 12/11
