rys, I understand this is the worst thing to you. But it isn't. Being estranged from your son would be the worst thing. You never want that to happen. Some things you really can't control. You can't do anything about him being around her. You can voice your concern, and you know that they already know your concern.
If you try to control this, you will have the opposite of your desired effect. You will drive your H further away from you. And worse, you will likely push your son away. The goal is to build the warmth and connections.
I know it's incredibly hard for you. It's time, though rys, to put the actions there for you.
God gives us our miracles, but we have to cooperate with him. If He starts to open a window, don't slam it shut.
If you acted all happy to take him there and really did a 180, your H would probably drop his jaw. Why not shock him. Really wake this man up.
You can do it, you know.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
