The thing going through my head right now is that I'm wondering if H took so long to have me served because he was busy hiding assets.
If you need to you can hire a forensic accountant to investigate this.
In my state, as long as two people are M'ed, the W (or H) has legal access to their spouse's records. So for example, if your H had records locked in a cabinet, you can legally break in and access those records. I found this out when I was interviewing Ls to represent me.......FYI.
