Originally Posted By: spellfire
Just my take on it...

Personally I wouldn't help her move out. She needs to learn that if she leaves, she doesn't get the benefits that go along with being with you anymore.

Having said that, you need to work on letting her go with respect. ie. not getting angry and/or acting out.

Good idea on not telling her I love you. What are you doing for you lately?


Agreed. That is a very good point. Don't help her move. But also don't act cold and angry about it. I did that and it set me back I think.


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce