Yeah, that's kind of what I thought too with my engineer guy. I guess I'll just wait and see....Like you, I don't want to be the pursuer. It seems like lots of guys stop by and view my profile, but no message or a smiley face or anything???
I just deleted my okcupid profile (free site) and boy were there some "winners" on there.
I'll just keep living my life and we'll see who shows up!
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10