Yeah, that's kind of what I thought too with my engineer guy. frown I guess I'll just wait and see....Like you, I don't want to be the pursuer. It seems like lots of guys stop by and view my profile, but no message or a smiley face or anything???

I just deleted my okcupid profile (free site) and boy were there some "winners" on there.

I'll just keep living my life and we'll see who shows up!


Me 55
H 49
Married 21 years
No kids
bomb 5/09
filed 7/09
divorced and moving forward 5/10

Life is all about Plan B