You know Mila - the birthday thing was sorted out for me, when my ex-husband decided to remarry .... on his birthday!!! (that stung) He'll never get a birthday wish from me again.
It's funny though, my birthday is 3 days after his - and for each of the 3 years he's been re-married - he's never missed a card in the mail, a small gift delivered to my door or office and an e-mail before 6am in the morning.
Sometimes I think he's less detached than me!
These guys are out to lunch. Send him an e-mail (early in the afternoon) - that's all he deserves.
Cheers,
V
Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.