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[zengypsy]

Hi HRT:

The first year is always the toughtest they say. But you made it thru and that's all that matters. Congrats. I wondered what my H was doing too.

I don't know if you are a Facebook user. I've been staying off because my H has made no qualms about putting our private stuff (like being seperated etc.) on his FB page. He blocks me and then unblocks me periodically. He also has removed any tagged photos that were of him and I on his page. Hell, he joined all the free on-line dating sites 2 weeks after were seperated!! He's basically erased me out of his life in any way he can. I just don't get how people can do that especially after 20 years. It's just so inhumane to me.
Since Going Dark; pitch dark, I find myself getting stronger everyday. Plus I'm re-reading DR for the like the 10th time. It keeps me in focus. It is a rollercoaster ride tho.

We will get to the other side hopefully with our spouses even if D happens.

Peace and Blessings to you!