Yep... my W too. She got p*ssed at me when I explained to her that I would not assist her in filing for, or paying for, Legal Separation papers bc I didn't want LS. I guess this is what we have to look forward to in the coming months. Good times.
Do you have kids Denver? The approach I took with W about D was:
"I can't help you with D; I can't sit next to you and say to the kids mommy and daddy agree to such and such etc etc b/c that would be a lie; I don't want a D; I don't agree to D"
She seemed to understand that logic. Just buyin' time.
Hey Pickle - My W and I do not have kids together. I have a daughter from a previous R who lives out of state and my W has a son who is 11 and lives with us, or rather, lived with us until W went off the deep end.
Yes, all I'm trying to do is buy time myself here. I figure the longer I can put D off the more chance that she will come around. Sometimes though, I wonder why I am bothering. I don't know why I am investing so much of myself into this M when W wants the easy way out. I'm a little down today, so never mind my negativity.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
