It sounds like DBing is working some. The tide us turning in that you are not dependent on H and H knows it but he is still trying to be with you. There is still much to be done, but no matter what I think you will be great and to me that is what is most important.

Good luck with tax season!

Me29 S3
H left 4/1/09
I file 8/2/10
Divorce final 5/17/11
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