After 15 months of separation my H sent me an email today telling me that I will probably be served the D papers this week.
H is signing over the house and property to me and all the contents except his guns and ham radios. He said I would be getting 37% of his retirement pension.
He said if I disagreed with anything then we could discuss it. Wonder what he'd say if I told him I disagreed with the divorce?
I feel so helpless because there's nothing I can do to stop it.
H still wants to use just one lawyer. I just feel like I'm between a rock and a hard place. If I put up any kind of fuss H will then say to put the house on the market. He can be very vindictive.
When the D papers come is there anyway to make sure I'm being dealt squarely with without H knowing? If there were obvious flaws that could hurt me in the long run I would definitely stand up for myself. There is no reason to make this contentious if H is being more than fair.
You think you are prepared for this and you find out all over again how much it hurts.
