well today i get a text right before her scheduled visit with the kids telling me i need to get over the whole OM not being around the kids issue. She has no way to get the kids unless he does it for her.
I told her she can do what ever she wants. I got home from work, the kids were still home and their mom had not called them and they called her and she didnt answer.
So i guess, he really doesnt want to do all that driving after all. The kids had a talk with grandma on the OM issue and about the OM picking them up so they could see mommy.
I love my children, they flat out refuse to have anything to do with the other man. Either mommy comes to see them at home or they go to Mommies friends house like they have been doing. They dont want to see OM.
when i was told this, i talked to them and told them it was ok to like OM. I would be upset or mad. Their answer to me was they dont want to. The OM doesnt care about them and they dont like to see mommy with him. They want mommy home and they wont accept OM.
I have to say it again, I LOVE MY KIDS! its sad they have to think about issues like this.
