Sounds like NC was the 180 that got her back last time. You earned her respect by not being too nice... you appeared to not care. I understand you have a baby now but the others are right... you need to have NC except about the baby. You need to earn her respect as a man.
(I know I'm new to the boards but I have 2 yrs DB experience in last marriage so a tiny bit of knowledge, and I am a woman so thought I'd throw that in from a female perspective)
Me - 38, 2nd M, no living children, 1 forever 6 yr old boy H - 44, 3rd M, twins 16
Dating 4/07 M 10/08 Bomb #1 12/10 Bomb #2 1/11 Bomb #3 12/11
