My posts don't seem to be posting so hopefully this comes through.

After a good long weekend with W where we had a good time. Kept conversation light and playful she instantly became the snow queen this morning over IM.

Not sure if I did this right but I said "I get the feeling something is on your mind, do you want to talk about it?"
W: No
Me: I'm here to listen if you change your mind.

The 180 is confusing to me because I'm supposed to change and do what I used to do in the beginning of our R which was listen and be attentive. On the other hand I'm also not supposed to contact her much and make her "miss me". These two things seem to go against each other.

I feel like my 180 has been working because we're spending time together and having fun but it's keeping me emotionally connected.