"Maybe I'm doing it all wrong but it seems like every time I fight with her over anything it just pushes her away so my 180 was to just concede to her that she is in control and can split things up according to her conscience."
That's what you don't understand. You aren't "fighting" her. Okay so say she's in control. What do you have to offer that will make her want to stay with you?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
