I guess the purpose is for W to see that she needs to change behavior too. Right now she feels that she IS physically affectionate because she was able to be that way with OM. Maybe this is not the time, but living in that fog assuming that she IS a certain way seems counterproductive.

Especially the example regarding kids. Wouldn't you want to know if kids said that about you?

Seems she is missing the boat... Maybe I'm rushing the process...

Step 1, get our M on solid ground.

Step 2, understand how to meet each others needs and work on that.

Correct?

M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012