Yeah, I'm not too worried about it. Our net worth is probably around 100k. I have already moved out and taken what is mine. I don't have a 401k because I work contract and we live in a community property state so I'm pretty sure that she can't really come after what I have. I think she wants me to take our 3rd car which has a decent chunk of equity in it but whatever happens I'm not worried. Money is just money... I believe in me which is something that she stopped doing somewhere along the way.
If she takes the house and keeps her 401k that would be about the same as the equity we have in the 3rd car once it is paid off and she would keep all of our furniture and stuff pretty much.
Maybe I'm doing it all wrong but it seems like every time I fight with her over anything it just pushes her away so my 180 was to just concede to her that she is in control and can split things up according to her conscience.
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