Okay, here's the 2x4. Are you fighting for your marriage or not? If you want it you have to fight for it. That includes showing that what you have together is worth something. All you're doing with the L is protecting yourself.
Giving her everything which may include your future wages is incredibly naive. Don't be surprised if she starts going after your retirement. You never know what the WAS is capable of doing. The L is just to protect what's yours and not whats joint. But hey that's your decision.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
