Oh and btw trust me, he is not gay! He just got divorced officially last month, and was married with a minivan--literally--when he was 21. So 16 years off the market and he is very tentative. He is the one who told me he wasn't ready for anything serious and I agreed totally. I am not either. However I would like to talk to him more than once a week (and a couple texts in there too)...oh well so be it. If I had him calling every day and texting nonstop that would annoy me more!