Thanks Sandi2. Always appreciate your insight and advice. Not sure if I screwed up today, but my wife called me at work and said that she wanted me to go and pickup a major purchase for our vacation home that she had ordered many months ago prior to me confronting her about her EA.
I told her that I could pick it up, but asked whether we were going to keep our getaway property. She said yes. I then said, just to clarify, does it make sense buying it if you are not staying around because we would have to sell it if we were to get divorced. She then said we will have to discuss it this evening. Not sure whether I should have pressed her on the status of her decision, but felt that I do have a right to know what her plans may or may not include.
It is frustrating to know that conversations that she is likely have with the OM on a daily basis are off limits to me. I am trying to follow the MWD advice, but at some point I do feel that you cannot continue to be a doormat and let the WAW dictate all of the actions and decisions.
Not sure what will come of it this evening. In the past her comments about discussing it later or tomorrow have never resulted in any further conversation on the topic.
