Personally I wouldn't help her move out. She needs to learn that if she leaves, she doesn't get the benefits that go along with being with you anymore.
Having said that, you need to work on letting her go with respect. ie. not getting angry and/or acting out.
Good idea on not telling her I love you. What are you doing for you lately?
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A