A, don't worry about hi-jacking. I know exactly how you feel. They get to have all the control. Well, when H didn't text or call me back I decided the next time if there is a next time he calls or texts he will not get me. He can leave a message whatever.
No matter how much I want to talk to him I won't do it until he sits and waits, like I do. I should have known better but it didn't hit me until now. When H called me in Oct. about him saying his benefits are going way up and he couldn't afford to keep me on, I told him that instead of going through the courts we could work something out and he never said anything. I texted him back then too and told him I didn't want to go through the courts and asked him to get in touch with me so we could work something out, but I don't know if he thought I was joking and was just going to let him get away with it or what.
