Well last year was a huge rollarcoaster ride. My mother passed away, my wife still with the same loser, and it took a long time for me to heal and move forward.
The best advice I can give to anyone going through the same thing is to stop what you think your doing is right and do the total opposite. Also Let go. You will feel much better. Easier said then done but really once you let go, and just focus on yourself and not the situation, things will get better.
I wait everyday now for our divorce. Not that I want it to happen at all, I still love her very much, but I know soon or later she will realize her mistakes and come to her senses. By that time I will be long gone.
Just wanted to revive this thread and see how everyone else who has helped me in the past is doing.
Me:27 W:24 S:2 D:9 months M:3 years Together for 8 years Bombed : 6/11/09 Moved out: 6/27/09 Found out about her affair 9/7/09 (she started her's at 6/25/09) Begged n plead 7/25/09 started DB 8/17/09
