GAL with waw. Stuck bad.

[habitacker]

That is the way I was looking at it. The problem is they listen to what I say about DBing, but they don't get it. They end up trying to sway me into our instinctive ways of doing things.

After talking with them I end up all fired up, and back in the "fix it now" mode. What they say makes sense to me because it is exactly what we all wanted to do when we started this. I don't want to backslide.

I would love to know where my wife stands now, she seems way more comfortable than a couple of months ago, but I get the impression she is getting comfortable being roommates, nothing else. But, that's a start.

I have said it before that it is very hard to tell for sure with her. She keeps it all inside. There has not been 1 word initiated about R by her since the bomb 4 months ago. She is just living like nothing is wrong. Really avoiding it I think. This is a lot of what got us into trouble in the first place.

I will have patience, but I really don't know what to look for. Even when we were at our peak, she was never physically affectionate. She is never going to come to me and hold my hand, or hug or even the smallest gesture. Just not her style. She was affectionate, just never initiated it.

My point is she never initiates anything physical or verbal. So at some point I am going to have to. Waiting for a R talk from her I believe will not happen.