I tried to tell my H that I thought that it was emotional abuse, and he thanks I am being to, I don't know something. He says he is stressed all the time because of his childhood, but he doesn't need help. I guess it's my fault that we are here, I should have put my foot down a long time ago, but I felt like I tried and he just blew me off. I also thought that deep down he loved me and I figured I could just deal with it. But I think I've gone off the deepend. He says know he is willing to work on it, but he thinks I am depressed and need to be on drugs. I think he thinks this will make everything better, because he really believes he hasn't done anything wrong. I will give him this, is hasn't yelled in a few months, however the a few weeks ago he was depressed because I wasn't greeting him at the door with a hug and kiss. I asked him what was wrong, was it me, work or what and he said I asked 3 questions in a row and he wasn't going to answer me, so he wouldn't talk to me for a couple of hours. I started trying harder and then about 2 weeks ago I was having a bad day and didn't talk much, I answered when spoken to but thats it. He got depressed again and didn't speak to me for 3 days. It makes me feel awful when he gets like that. I just don't know what to do. I don't want to hurt him or our kids, but I feel like I am dieing inside.
