I just get super anxious thinking about the actual divorce. On the one hand I want it to be over so that she can start to deal with the reality of what we are doing but on the other hand I hope that she could slow down and take a step back to really think about what she wants to do. (Maybe she has and this is my denial talking)
I'm right there in your shoes man. Just sittin' back waiting to be served, or not. So you're not alone. Try not to "dwell" on it because you have no "control" over her. But you do have control over yourself.
It's analagous to asking a lawyer about my rights after a lot of urging on this board. The lawyer just basically said (paraphrasing) "Look, you're rights are what they are, nobody can take them away from you, If you're not the one seeking the divorce, there's no point in worrying about it"
And he's right I have as much control over my legal rights as I have over my WAW. If and when she serves me, I'll deal with it. Just continue to DB as best you can. Will keep you in my prayers.
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."
