Happy 2011 everyone; it's going to be a great year!
I was a fitness instructor for 20 years and continue to be a "gym rat." My XH chose a chubby little thing who can't run around the block! It's because she doesn't threaten him and she strokes his ego all day long because they're both broken down shells and need that sick kind of relationship.
He loved me as deeply as he could for many, many years and I always felt so lucky to have found him. In some ways I still feel that way, BUT there is a better match out there for me and this year he's going to find me....
MuscleGal, YUCK and very inappropriate. Your XH wants to be their "friend" instead of parent and that always backfires. You're doing a great job staying strong and setting your boundaries; keep it up! I teach 8th grade and I don't know of any "professional" who would say to bring the OW for "sleepovers" the very first night. That's just sick. Can you document all this with an attempt to reduce his visitation time?
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10
