It is important now to just do what you feel is right. H has to understand that your family is important to you and that he can't always have you all the time especially because you can't have him all the time. It is called compromise. H also has to learn to get along with your family again if he wants to be a part of your life and same with your family and him. It is going to be hard on everyone, but if it is going to work you all will have to work together.

I know your family sounds like mine and will be nice to H and do the best they can to work with him if that is waht you want so I am not downing them, but just understanding that it will be hard on them as well.

I am sure you are about to get swamped at work with tax season starting so I am wishing you well.

Happy New Year!


Me29 S3
H left 4/1/09
I file 8/2/10
Divorce final 5/17/11
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