IB, I have done the very same thing. I am a counselor for goodness sake! I was trained by MWD herself. My H was having an affair 6 months before I found out. Don't you know I have asked myself many times, "How did I not see this coming, or even notice when it was going on?" But then I have to remind myself that this isn't really about me. This is about H and his MLC craziness! Will he ever come out of this? I have no clue. It really isn't something that I have dealt with in my practice. But, I do know that I am trusting God, and He will get me through this and I will be a better person. My D is going through Confirmation right now, and this Sunday she has the Rite of Enrollment Mass. This is H weekend, I am sure he will attend the Mass, but it has been about a month since he has gone. I know that God is working on him and I hope that he can recollect why he converted so many years ago. I know that he will not get through this MLC without God. But he has to accept God. I am hoping through our D's confirmation with is in April H will work on finding his way back to God. I am just not sure he is open to that right now.
Lorie W47 H48 D16 M20 H gone 11/9/10 lives w/OW
When you forgive,you heal. When you let go,you grow. When you cry to God, you surrender. When you love unconditionally, you show others Christ's love.
