I'm helping her move out? I'm losing my mind.

[Denver_2010]

I think that Grocery is giving you really good advice. My W moved out at the very end of November. I wish that I had had that advice weeks prior to her move bc I acted very angry when she told me that she was moving out and left town when she did the actual move. I think that I could have helped my sitch tremendously if I had just been nice and understanding. I think the advice to say once that her moving saddens you is also very good advice. After that, stop pressuring and/or pursuing for a while. Don't just tell her that you understand and are giving her the space that she needs. Do it.