Oh and though I love my W very much, if she decides to leave I WILL love again.

As you know, I don't believe in the theory of a sole-mate. And if your W doesn't want you, no longer connects with you, does not want to be with you, then by very definition you CAN NOT be sole-mates...

M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012