Hi - I just read what you wrote on Antonia's thread. Wise words. I have been following your thread . . and thinking my own thoughts. What you wrote to Antonia you should probably re-read, and apply to you!! It was great advice.
Yes, we love them and want to believe them, but only actions should be taken seriously, not the words that they utter so easily. If he wants you, he has to give up the OW. It is his choice, you are not a mean lady for putting him through this pain. Where is your sense of self worth? You are a smart woman, and deserve better treatment that that.
