Wife and I are both back at work this week after the holidays. Hard to tell if we have made progress or not. She was more interested in doing things as a family, something she has not had any interest in doing until recently. Hopefully, her trying to reconnect with the family is a good thing.
Still no word from her on the status of the OM. Not sure whether they had any Text Messaging going on during the holidays. I am trying not to pay too much attention to this part of her life.
I am trying to be there for her, but her emotional wall is still up and thick as ever. At this point, she doesn't even say goodnight, just heads off to bed b herself when the mood hits.
She is looking for a new marketing job so at least she won't be working for the same company as the OM. Hopefully this happens sooner than later. Other than kids and work we don't talk about anything of any substance at this time either. Will continue to try and engage her as I don't want to leave any reason for her to stay connected with OM.
