H's MLC - finding compassion and forgiveness

[BeingMe]

he is a damaged selfish person...I know there is the MLC diagnosis...but so what...he still had choices....and he chose to give up our relationship, our friendship, our family.....

The MLC diagnosis isn't always a definite. And, even if so, many are aware of their MLC status. We all have choices, some seem to have a default choice ... betray the one who loves you the most. My H also did this before we were married, but it hurt nonetheless. I always wonder why I married him after he hurt me that badly. Who knows? As you say, Mila, blinded by love. I still miss my friendship with H. The man he was did not come back, which is why I still think there is something going on. Oh well! Can't prove it, and don't want to sneak through his computer or cell phone.

I think you will find someone easily, and it will be someone who deserves you because you won't suffer fools gladly again. You've grown through this. As have most of us.