Antonia - I have to be honest and say one thing...when I read your post, I think - where is the woman that responds to my posts with such strength, care and understanding? I read so much anger and pain in your post. I encourage you to listen to your OWN words of wisdom that you give others and apply to yourself. They are wonderful words of wisdom
YOU are strong YOU are capable of real understanding YOU don't need him to make you happy YOU are capable of forgiveness - it is a gift to yourself
Let go of your anger, just let it go. It is a freedom that a lot of us don't have right now, but I imagine it is wonderful not to be angry any more.
I wish I could go through the monitor and give you a big (((HUG))). You deserve happiness and only you are in control of that choice.
Choose to let go. Choose to be happy.
TAMF m:41 xh:41 T: 20 M: 15 D: 16 D: 14 Bomb dropped: 7/3/10 separated: 7/15/10 H moved in to new apt. with OW: 7/1/11 divorced: 8/26/12