My W is hot also which is why she is so vulnerable. Guys are just naturally attracted to her. She does work out often and eats right.
BUT...
My W was a SAHM for 11 years. She has no college degree and can't support herself as it stands today. She works part time. She is VERY talented but just has no idea what she wants to do. She is a wonderful mom though and is raising two beautiful children and I hold a tremendous amount of respect for her in that regard.
The other problem with W is she is always searching for SOMETHING. Rarely just content in the moment. Always thinking the next thing will make her happy. Something she is aware of and working on. She knows happiness is within but that is a difficult thing for her to follow.
That fog is a killer. It truly is a drug! An escape from the stress of real life. If my W actually left she would be smacked with reality and no new man would be able to save her from the fact that she will need to support herself (alone and without support from me at some point), mother alone, and do everything herself. And what are the chances that OM will be there forever? Slim to none in most cases...
You and I have supported and loved our wives. WE deserve what OM is getting or got! And if we do what we are supposed to do, love, pay attention, help, care for, we will get it...
If not from our W then from the next R because you and I have an advantage over 99% of the men out there... We NOW understand!
M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14 EA - July 2010 NC w/EA - Nov 2010 Piecing - Jan 2011 I ask for div - Jan 2012 Div papers filed - Mar 2012 I move out - July 2012 Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012
