18 years, known each other for 20. 2 kids 13 and 10. no real debt and about o retire after 20 years in the military. No other person as far as i know.
she is sick of me being hurtful, mean and doing and saying mean hurtful things. May seem easy to change but it has been a long 8 months since she dropped the bomb in May.
Tonight I came home from work and she told me she is done, tired of hurting the kids and herself. I have said some very mean evil things over the holidays and that lead to the final straw. So It seems to be mostly my fault. We are military stationed over in Germany so that makes it hard for her to just up and separate or leave, plus middle of school year as well.
Tomorrow we have the marriage counseling and more chat this evening but it appears i will not be swaying her opinion. Now my question is, do I make the changes anyway in hopes it could salvage or will she take the attempts as my last ditch effort? Either way, I suppose it truly is my last ditch effort huh!
Me - 39 yrs old Wife - 39 yrs old Married - 18 years Together - almost 21 year Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10 Bomb Dropped in May 2010 Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out
