First off, interesting post name that you used. Based on what you have posted it seems to me that FEAR or “scared” if you will is your biggest issue right now. Is this fear understandable? Yes. It is though something that you will need to get a handle on if you have any hope to save YOURSELF in this process.
People have suggested that you purchase Divorce Busting and Divorce Remedy. I suggest that you pick these two books up immediately.
I also suggest that you come to some realizations pronto, and that is that right now YOUR W wants out or at least that what it appears like to me. Does that mean the it is “over”? Not by a long shot buddy. What I am about to say to you may not make sense right now…but I want you to remember this….
YOU Scared determine when it is over! That’s right YOU!
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she seems bothered by being stuck with me
OF course she is bothered….accept it. Know that right now only YOUR ACTIONS can change things.
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New Years I received no Hug Kiss of a Happy New Year.
So what….no kiss or hug. F*ck it. Man up dude. Are you in this for the long haul?
Can you do me a favor and list some of the complaints that your wife has about you. Also give me a little more info. Any kids, how long have you been married? Is another person in the picture? Are you guys in a mountain of debt?
Also, take a minute and write down what YOU want in YOUR life.
Breath buddy…breath…
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
