My wife told me last May she wasnt sure if she loved me anymore. Chaos of all sorts ensued. We have been going thru Marriage and Individual counseling since August. Things seem to be getting worse. I feel I made some of the changes suggested in counseling and some I stumled over. at this point it feels like it is all up to me and not much is being done on her part. My parents just finished a 2 week visit over the holidays and that is wehre the above posts started. So I am just not sure. I kinda backed off recently with attempting to hug and saying I love you. We have not had sex since June. I need physical contact to feel loved and there has been none.


Me - 39 yrs old
Wife - 39 yrs old
Married - 18 years
Together - almost 21 year
Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10
Bomb Dropped in May 2010
Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out