Very wise words of wisdom above from Beatrice and Brooklyn.
Looking on from the safety of miles and Plexi-glass - I wouldn't have responded to H's text. He is just doing his best to involve you in his mess. Keep the leash on, so to speak. 2nd - you did great by letting son handle it. You know, your son also knows the 'off' and 'ignore' buttons on his phone, as well as you do.
3rdly, and most importantly, as Brooklyn said, GET OUT OF HIS HEAD. It's not safe in there. It's toxic. The fumes alone will get you.
Finally, and most importantly, quit kicking yourself in the a$$ all the time, you are going to pull a muscle. LOL
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011
