I'm hanging in there. NYE was boring, DS and I were asleep by 11:30.
I think I am going to have to file first. If H files first using no-fault then I am pretty much SOL as to getting to use any other grounds. Going to talk to a lawyer and see what my options are.
New thread: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2112303