HRT - I understand where you are coming from fully. I struggle with many things during this painful time, but one of the huge things is how can our WAS's just turn off their feelings like we and the life we've shared with them never even existed?? It seems inhuman to me. I have no understanding of that at all.
Hurt people like to hurt people back. I guess our WAS's feel that we hurt them somehow and this is how they hurt us back; leaving, seeking divorce, having affairs. I am truly convinced that one day they will have an ah-ha moment and realize what they have lost and want to come back. We will we will be in the drivers seat and it will be up to us if we want them to be passengers.
KEEP STRONG! I am so glad we all have each other for support.
Peace and Blessings - ZG
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M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
