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She was always family oriented til around 35. She then exercised more , had tummy tuck, etc and became more vain and went out more. She still was there for me and family as well. Looking back the shift happened gradually.So gradually i didn't notice til the kiss in June. Previously we were close emotionally and physcially or so I thought. Her job became more important as well. Now she is in upper mgmt and that is the most important thing.