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[Denver_2010]

Hi Baboon - It really stinks that you find yourself here, but it is a very good place to get good advice. I forget which MWD book that you read, but I found Divorce Remedy to be the better one bc it is more detailed. I suggest that you pick it up if you haven't read it.

I'm too new to all of this to give much advice. All I can say is that I did everything wrong at the beginning in terms of begging, crying, pleading, etc. too. So don't feel badly. It is natural response I think. I will also say that my W has calmed down, it seems, since I backed waaaayyyy off and let her have what she was asking for, i.e., space. I don't know if anything positive will come of it, but it was/is all I can really do. All I'm doing now is GAL and focusing on my issues that I see contributed to the current state of my M. I do not initiate any contact with W at all.

I will also suggest the DB Coach. I signed up for 3 sessions but have only used 1 so far. It helped bc I at least feel like I have a plan and am not proceeding directionless.

good luck man!

Denver