I agree with you sandi2. My "old" husband is the kind of guy who would have probably reacted in a postive way if I behaved like "David" however if the OW has any influence in his current actions and desicions (Sorry sp) then i suspect i could easily be took advantage of. It depends who's pulling the strings I guess, or maybe not. Maybe I'm kidding myself, I suspect I'm being unfair to the OW and I'm still trying to see my H as the victim to some evil seductress who brainwashed him into thinking he doesn't love me.
